I work hard but believe in balance so I love to get out and enjoy spending my hard earned dollar. I think it’s wonderful that you are driven, ambitious, and self-sufficient. The majority of men aren’t slackers and aren’t millionaires. Plus he has student loan debt that he’s not trying to pay off urgently, and his longest job has been only about 6 months so far.
And even if its common in naija for babes to chase after money. Owning a car is such an aggravation that I'm better off not owning one.There’s no need to put on a mask or to pretend you’re someone you’re not. And to top it off, you’re entirely comfortable being yourself when he’s around. He doesn’t mind seeing you in a ratty giant t-shirt.He accepts the fact that you can sometimes be irrational, petulant or unreasonable.The problem with neediness is that instead of inspiring all of those positive relationship qualities, the “needy person” acts as if their partner is denying them those good relationship qualities…like they’re entitled to them and their partner is cruelly withholding it.When I write dating tips and relationship advice for a new mode, I am writing to a female audience.