Making Sense of an Attraction to a Married Man Having a Secret Love Affair Community Q&A Loving the married man. This is for the women who love their married men and need positive guidance and support to work through their issues. No matter what side of the fence you’re on both can agree that this is a very controversial and moralistically sensitive topic. The touch of a hand, an innocent conversation, a glance?Dating married man is not something any of us want to do.We know it’s wrong and harmful, but we can’t always help how we feel. We can never control how we feel about someone – no matter if they’re married or not. If you have eyes for a married guy, you’re probably sitting here looking for every excuse under the sun to rationalize what you’re thinking of doing.
But married men who cheat usually don’t want to leave their wives.Some emails have come from women who have been “involved” with these men for months, sometimes even years. It doesn’t matter how good the sex he gets from you is either. You see all these words and feelings he describes to you are just as much fantasy to him as they are to you. I’m sorry if that sounds harsh, but someone needs to make you women see what’s really going on in this situation.He’s lost the romance and spark he had at the beginning of his marriage, and you’re giving it to him. When a man is serious about a woman, he can’t stand being away from her. I feel for you, and I want you to find an amazing man of your own, not for you to take another woman’s, or for a man to treat you like a piece of meat. why would any woman do that to another woman's family - that's just garbage behavior.Getting into a relationship with married men We love helping people we like out of troubling situations.And admit it, you’d love a man who’s a mess, if he likes you. But when he looks towards you for emotional support and love, the same things his own wife, apparently, doesn’t provide him, you end up falling in love, more with his emotional affairs rather than anything else.But why do women fall into this trap in the first place?